There's a saying that goes something like this;
Something old
Something new
Some tradition
that means nothing to you
Let's see if we can start some new traditions and change the culture a bit.
Monday, May 31, 2010
Monday, May 17, 2010
Invitations to Weeds
We are under 5 weeks and it seems as if the time is really flying. This weekend was really busy with plenty of other things, like fund raising, but there was still time to do some wedding things.
So what have we been doing? Weeding the lawn, beds and that kind of thing. Re-graveling the driveway and some more fertilizing of grass. But all our work was not outside. We also have done some invitation kinds of things; cutting, pasting, licking and addressing. They are in the mail, which is a relief. Just so everyone knows; announcements are supposed to go out at the 6 week mark and we missed it, but if there are those who decide that this is reason enough to skip the wedding then so be it. We're going to have a great time celebrating this union whether everything is perfectly done to etiquette or not.
I am just trying to keep you posted on the wedding preparations, not necessarily asking for weeding help. If you want to help with those kinds of things we would love for you to come as long as you come with the idea of visiting more than having your fingers worked off. Kind of like the "fun" in fund raising.
Get ready to celebrate with us!!!
So what have we been doing? Weeding the lawn, beds and that kind of thing. Re-graveling the driveway and some more fertilizing of grass. But all our work was not outside. We also have done some invitation kinds of things; cutting, pasting, licking and addressing. They are in the mail, which is a relief. Just so everyone knows; announcements are supposed to go out at the 6 week mark and we missed it, but if there are those who decide that this is reason enough to skip the wedding then so be it. We're going to have a great time celebrating this union whether everything is perfectly done to etiquette or not.
I am just trying to keep you posted on the wedding preparations, not necessarily asking for weeding help. If you want to help with those kinds of things we would love for you to come as long as you come with the idea of visiting more than having your fingers worked off. Kind of like the "fun" in fund raising.
Get ready to celebrate with us!!!
Monday, May 3, 2010
46 days
Kimmy told me that I had better start posting here, since there is only 46 days until she has a new man in her life.
People have been asking me if I am excited or sad about Kimmy leaving home, or what I think about them moving to NC after they are married.
Here's what I think. God gives us many things as stewardship opportunities, and kids are one of them. As a parent our job is to prepare our kids for life after they have moved on. I am so excited to see what God is going to do with our kids as they move forward.
We are working on things like invitations, lots of "day of" things (I can't tell you what or I'd have to..) and even going over job opportunities and housing in NC. It's hard to believe that she is almost married.
Some of our friends are telling us they are not coming to the wedding because they know that there are some people there who will be in tears- namely me. For those who know me this is not a stretch. So bring extra mascara, or just don't wear any:) I just want to go on record right now as saying that I am very excited about this wedding and that every tear will be tears of joy.
Kimmy has just had a surgery and it was good of God to allow her to be moved up in the schedule so she can recover before the wedding. Ian graduates from the Master's College this weekend and so ends one chapter and begins another. We are proud of Ian; he finished a year early.
They're going to make a great family. What will God do with them. Please pray for them.
People have been asking me if I am excited or sad about Kimmy leaving home, or what I think about them moving to NC after they are married.
Here's what I think. God gives us many things as stewardship opportunities, and kids are one of them. As a parent our job is to prepare our kids for life after they have moved on. I am so excited to see what God is going to do with our kids as they move forward.
We are working on things like invitations, lots of "day of" things (I can't tell you what or I'd have to..) and even going over job opportunities and housing in NC. It's hard to believe that she is almost married.
Some of our friends are telling us they are not coming to the wedding because they know that there are some people there who will be in tears- namely me. For those who know me this is not a stretch. So bring extra mascara, or just don't wear any:) I just want to go on record right now as saying that I am very excited about this wedding and that every tear will be tears of joy.
Kimmy has just had a surgery and it was good of God to allow her to be moved up in the schedule so she can recover before the wedding. Ian graduates from the Master's College this weekend and so ends one chapter and begins another. We are proud of Ian; he finished a year early.
They're going to make a great family. What will God do with them. Please pray for them.
Friday, April 9, 2010
In the Works
This past couple of weeks has been full on other fronts, but there is still wedding stuff to handle. Here's what we have been addressing.
Not envelopes yet, but the announcements are in the works and Kimmy is very excited about how they are turning out. Simple yet fun and elegant- I would guess.
Tents and location. Had a meeting with the "tent guy" this week and we are trying to nail all that down; how big, exact location on the property, blah, blah, blah. The location is secured- you'll have to wait for an announcement to find out where- and we are trying to think of all the things that might come up; parking issues, bathrooms, power, seating, tables...
The dress should be here pretty soon, so that will be fun to see how it looks in real life.
Starting to talk about the menu and the preparation for that.
Kimmy got the flower girl baskets yesterday- very cute, but not something I will be carrying.
Yesterday at work we had the radio on and "Butterfly Kisses" came on while I was standing in front of her. When he sang "She'll change her name today" that was hard to hear w/o getting choked up, both of us. So there we were, in the showroom of PG with happy tears in our eyes. It will be here and gone before we know it.
And last, but certainly not least, we have a meeting set up to talk with the wedding coordinator next week, to make sure we are on track. Kimmy is doing great- she is NOT Bridezilla.
Not envelopes yet, but the announcements are in the works and Kimmy is very excited about how they are turning out. Simple yet fun and elegant- I would guess.
Tents and location. Had a meeting with the "tent guy" this week and we are trying to nail all that down; how big, exact location on the property, blah, blah, blah. The location is secured- you'll have to wait for an announcement to find out where- and we are trying to think of all the things that might come up; parking issues, bathrooms, power, seating, tables...
The dress should be here pretty soon, so that will be fun to see how it looks in real life.
Starting to talk about the menu and the preparation for that.
Kimmy got the flower girl baskets yesterday- very cute, but not something I will be carrying.
Yesterday at work we had the radio on and "Butterfly Kisses" came on while I was standing in front of her. When he sang "She'll change her name today" that was hard to hear w/o getting choked up, both of us. So there we were, in the showroom of PG with happy tears in our eyes. It will be here and gone before we know it.
And last, but certainly not least, we have a meeting set up to talk with the wedding coordinator next week, to make sure we are on track. Kimmy is doing great- she is NOT Bridezilla.
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Cakes, Ceremony and Clothes
We are starting to put things together now. Kimmy and Ian had time while in NC to plan some of the wedding components and she brought those wishes back to us.
So many people have said they want to help do this or that and it is so mice to have a family of families who see this wedding as a time of celebration for our entire community- this is exactly the way that it is supposed to be. This is a fun challenge to have- so many wanting to help.
Some of the things- ok many of the things- I am not allowed to share in the blog because they are supposed to be surprises for the day. In fact, I was told yesterday that there are things that are going to happen that I don't get to know until the time comes. Generally I am not super excited about surprises, but I will have to go with the flow.
So right now we are making decisions on cake things, ceremony components and order, what people are going to wear, who all will be in the wedding and reception items. Most of these things I don't have too much of an opinion about other than I want for them to be right and not done half way.
We are also working on the honeymoon planning. Things like when is the best time to leave, how long should they go for, where exactly should they go and how should they get there. The nice things for them is that they really don't have to be back to work or anything else at any certain time so they can be gone more than a week if they so choose.
The time is coming up quickly and it is both exciting and hard to think about what our house will be like w/o Kimmy here much of the time. It is also difficult to imagine PG w/o her there 3-4 days a week. She is a key component in many places and soon she will be off to her next stage. We are thankful for the time God has allowed us to have this stewardship opportunity and for the godly example she is to so many around her- she is a great example- not perfect- of godly femininity.
BTW- you are allowed to comment on here.
So many people have said they want to help do this or that and it is so mice to have a family of families who see this wedding as a time of celebration for our entire community- this is exactly the way that it is supposed to be. This is a fun challenge to have- so many wanting to help.
Some of the things- ok many of the things- I am not allowed to share in the blog because they are supposed to be surprises for the day. In fact, I was told yesterday that there are things that are going to happen that I don't get to know until the time comes. Generally I am not super excited about surprises, but I will have to go with the flow.
So right now we are making decisions on cake things, ceremony components and order, what people are going to wear, who all will be in the wedding and reception items. Most of these things I don't have too much of an opinion about other than I want for them to be right and not done half way.
We are also working on the honeymoon planning. Things like when is the best time to leave, how long should they go for, where exactly should they go and how should they get there. The nice things for them is that they really don't have to be back to work or anything else at any certain time so they can be gone more than a week if they so choose.
The time is coming up quickly and it is both exciting and hard to think about what our house will be like w/o Kimmy here much of the time. It is also difficult to imagine PG w/o her there 3-4 days a week. She is a key component in many places and soon she will be off to her next stage. We are thankful for the time God has allowed us to have this stewardship opportunity and for the godly example she is to so many around her- she is a great example- not perfect- of godly femininity.
BTW- you are allowed to comment on here.
Monday, March 8, 2010
Missing my Kimmy
It's kind of weird around here with no Kimmy. Grant just got back from LA, so it is a bit more lively here- but I do mean a bit.
We are excited to know what Kimmy and Ian are thinking about the possibility of going to NC- but not so we can put in our 2 cents worth but so we can better know how to pray for them. It is going to be exciting to see what God does with these 2 young people, with so much potential and life in them- what will our Great God do with these 2 pots?
Much of our lives as parents are getting them ready for this day and then they just go and it is important for us to actually let them go wherever the Lord leads them. Missing my little girl and thinking about how this is their first trip together w/o any one else with them and knowing that Ian will take good care of her and protect her.
We are excited to know what Kimmy and Ian are thinking about the possibility of going to NC- but not so we can put in our 2 cents worth but so we can better know how to pray for them. It is going to be exciting to see what God does with these 2 young people, with so much potential and life in them- what will our Great God do with these 2 pots?
Much of our lives as parents are getting them ready for this day and then they just go and it is important for us to actually let them go wherever the Lord leads them. Missing my little girl and thinking about how this is their first trip together w/o any one else with them and knowing that Ian will take good care of her and protect her.
Sunday, March 7, 2010
North Carolina Seminary
We are still planning a wedding but right now things are a bit slower than they were before. Life always seems to come in spurts.
Kimmy and Ian are currently in NC checking out a seminary. Ian was invited but one of the board member-I think- to come and visit, and so they both flew back and are staying with a family that built their home to do these kinds of things. Kimmy said that Ian has a huge up stairs apartment kind of location and she is staying in another apartment kind of thing behind the garage. She said they are staying in the "same house" but if they got any farther apart they wouldn't be.
I digress a bit here. When she was flying out- to go to California to meet up with Ian- Teresa had dropped her off at the airport and as she was walking away Teresa said she was thinking about guys hitting on our cute little girl. She was thinking that she hoped the guys would just leave her alone.
Kimmy was in line to check in at the Alaska counter and a bunch of guys came and stood around her- the UW men's basketball team was flying to California for the Pac-10 tournament and she was standing in the middle of them. She had to call and tell me- she thought I would appreciate that.
Back on track. Kimmy called from NC and said she was very tired but they were really encouraged so far with just the short time they were there. She will keep us updated. Please pray that God would make very obvious for them both if this is where He would have them to start out their life together. This is a huge decision and God can make it really easy for them if He opens, or closes, doors. If they like the seminary and all that goes with it, they will then look for jobs and housing while they are there.
It is both fun and sad to see my little girl so grown up. As parents this is what we are training our children to do- go forth- but there is still sadness as they start the leaving process. They are merely stewardship opportunities for us and God has been so gracious to us to give us amazing kids.
On a selfish note- we are going to miss Kimmy at PG when she leaves. She is such a great asset to our business but it will also be fun to see what God does with her training in our business, and the rest of her life, as He leads them into this next place.
Kimmy and Ian are currently in NC checking out a seminary. Ian was invited but one of the board member-I think- to come and visit, and so they both flew back and are staying with a family that built their home to do these kinds of things. Kimmy said that Ian has a huge up stairs apartment kind of location and she is staying in another apartment kind of thing behind the garage. She said they are staying in the "same house" but if they got any farther apart they wouldn't be.
I digress a bit here. When she was flying out- to go to California to meet up with Ian- Teresa had dropped her off at the airport and as she was walking away Teresa said she was thinking about guys hitting on our cute little girl. She was thinking that she hoped the guys would just leave her alone.
Kimmy was in line to check in at the Alaska counter and a bunch of guys came and stood around her- the UW men's basketball team was flying to California for the Pac-10 tournament and she was standing in the middle of them. She had to call and tell me- she thought I would appreciate that.
Back on track. Kimmy called from NC and said she was very tired but they were really encouraged so far with just the short time they were there. She will keep us updated. Please pray that God would make very obvious for them both if this is where He would have them to start out their life together. This is a huge decision and God can make it really easy for them if He opens, or closes, doors. If they like the seminary and all that goes with it, they will then look for jobs and housing while they are there.
It is both fun and sad to see my little girl so grown up. As parents this is what we are training our children to do- go forth- but there is still sadness as they start the leaving process. They are merely stewardship opportunities for us and God has been so gracious to us to give us amazing kids.
On a selfish note- we are going to miss Kimmy at PG when she leaves. She is such a great asset to our business but it will also be fun to see what God does with her training in our business, and the rest of her life, as He leads them into this next place.
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